Here are a few things my H told me last night: "If we get divorced" "My lawyer said I don't have to do anything with the paperwork, I can sit on it as long as I want to". "We would lose $1500 if we don't get the divorce" - to this one I replied "That money is nothing compared to keeping our marriage"
He also said, maybe we will talk tonight. I got the impression from what he said about the OW, that she was scared off. Of course he tried to tell me they were just friends, but then he said "We no longer can be friends because she is worried about her kids and her job". They are under the impression that I found out from someone at her work. He also informed me that she has already filed for D from her H, and that they have been seperated for 3 weeks.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10