And now for some real DBing advice, so rare on this thread for some reason.

Always try and assume the best about your spouse's actions:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_he_must_be_teething.htm

Always err on the side of unconditional friendship and empathy, even if they're actively in an affair:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Disagree with MWD? That's cool, let's discuss.

Oh, and hey T! Good to see you.

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK