So, we basically had the same talk we did yesterday. However, i stuck to my guns and she removed him last night. She wasnt happy about it but it was done.
What did you say specifically? Do you remember? If so post it here, post her response.
The people on this forum learn by real life examples, if you were able to get her to do this successfully without arguing, give us a breakdown of the dialog so that others can try the same thing when they're in those situations.
Also.... install a keylogger on the pc. You can't trust her yet, even though you want her to. She has been pushing past your boundaries for quite some time, this facebook contact was the only visible form of contact you were able to see, there may be others, in fact I would bank on it. That's just the nature of the beast as it goes right now.
What have you been doing to improve yourself. I'm not saying she is perfect but you helped contribute to this situation. What are you doing to make yourself stand out as the better option? Do you have a life outside of your family? Do you go to the gym? Do you ever shop for new clothes, do you ever invest in your personal appearance? Are you a slob? Are you overweight and when you began your relationship with her you were in shape? Do you play any team sports? Or do you just hang out on your computer every day after work and just follow the same old boring routine day in and day out?
