DONT SIGN ANYTHING. Just be light and cheery. Take the paperwork, tell him you'll look it over with counsel and get back to him. You need to be sure you get some kind of legal advice and protect yourself. Just act like its no big deal. And YES you should be looking absolutely fabulous - hey a little manipulation never hurt anything
As for your living Sitch - perhaps moving in with family is just what the Dr. Ordered. Helps with the lonliness, will help you get financiall stable and change your environment. 3/3 in my book!
Last thing. I know this is hard. STOP trying to determine how H will respond to what you do, how he will feel about what you do, or how he will react. SO WHAT if he thinks you are pushing him out - it was the BEST THING FOR YOU. Pack it all up - every last piece - you'll feel better(relative) - I promise!!
If you do the best thing for you and it "happens" to be good for him to, then great. If not, you have to only consider what is best for you, he's not going to, he can't. YOU HAVE NO IDEA what he will think of what you do. What he thinks about you right now, is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
You can do this - you're strong. Just be the best you possible and only focus on that. He'll see it!
Good luck at Lunch. I'll be looking for your post later with updates!
Talia
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
