Well she has gotten cold feet to some extent. She has basically backed off from going to counseling to see if we have a foundation to work from. Now she wants to focus on parenting and the troubles we're having with our oldest daughter. I'm sure it must feel risky to her. I get that. It's just that the days weeks and months are passing by and with time the love is dying. It's almost as if she wants to move forward but is afraid to take any risk. At the risk of losing everything. I get that too. Just a bummer. I wonder if she's afraid the counselor will suggest she try and she's not ready? Recommendations?should I wait? Go slow with counseling? We're really pretty good friends right now. Id hate to see things stay as they are.
-rsf
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
