DB'ing has left me as a shell of a person I was. DB'ing has left me paralyzed in voice and action. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-confidence. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-love.
Well, if these things are happening, then I'd have to say you aren't doing it right! I don't mean that in a mean way, but DBing should be doing pretty much the opposite of all those things.
I do have to agree something here is not right. This is not the way I understand DB'ing.
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So, speaking of the fear, let's attack it! What are you afraid of? If you can take control of your fear, you can defeat it!
I think this is the core question.
Are you afraid of D? You must take your fear and turn it into a shield. Use it as power!