Sorry, guys, I was nearly convinced that I should do exactly that when I found yesterday that my H had called OW's house from his cell phone this weekend. I know it can have a perfectly innocent explanation (asking her to bring something to the office today or something like that) but I just cannot feel very confident.

I just don't understand men... or mine in particular.

To be fair, after a quarrel last night (I had asked him his opinion on Tal's sitch and he got mad at me for 'leaving our D to watch TV while I was on the BB'), this morning started well: , then ILY before going to work.

I don't know anything.

"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"