me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
I said "I am trying, It has been rather pleasant the last few days and I 'm enjoying the temperture around here alot more & You ?"
She said " I'm not really having to try, it's um okay with me how it's going and I mean I don't think about it, I'm just doing it because it's natural or it's what i want or ILY-, OK?
I'm still not calling it busted, BUT it may be time for me to get off the newcomers board. Man this was definitely an experience.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
I think you don't PURSUE her as a source, and you should respect her privacy if she requests it or even seems to want it. But if she reaches out to you, I think it would be wise to compare notes. The two of you, working together, can be an extremely strong tool in busting the affair.
The two of you, working together, can be an extremely strong tool in busting the affair.
Puppy
We (OMW & I) both BELIEVE the A is busted.
She was really asking about what I knew from the past, she said Her H was In the meltdown mode and willing to tell her the "truth" about any and all of it if she wanted to know.
I just don't know if I want to hear his version of the "truth"
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
Then ask her to respect that. Just because the info flows one way, doesn't mean you want to hear it coming back. Tell her to keep you abreast ONLY of immediately-pending developments that might be a risk to your family's finances, health, etc.
