So, tell your family exactly that! Tell them you love H and are trying to work on marriage and that h is back living with you. Ask your family members for what you need from them right now: Support. Explain to your parents that you feel you made a mistake by letting them know so much about your marital problems, and that now you want them to be able to try and forgive NOT forget, too. Let them all know that you are a capable, strong woman able to take care of her own needs and wants...but that you love them for worrying and caring about you. Explain that the best thing they can do is to support you as you try to piece your marriage back together....it just might go over easier than you imagine.