The following post is rated "anti-db". Newbies do not read. Anyone else that wants to hit me with a 2x4 feel free. I already know!

To start off with if MRS. OP is reading this. I LOVE YOU!!!!

Was snooping again and found all the info that my wife used to write her letter to me. I believe it was a lot of her ideas but it was composed by her IC in FL. I also found a letter that gives her new IC permission to talk to our MC.(it is dated tomorrow which I find curious). Also found her notes on why she wants to stay married to me and why she wants to D me. It was about 50/50. Equal amount of reasons on both sides.
She spent the day yesterday on the phone with this IC.

Today she goes to the labor lawyer. I was afraid that she was going to start the D proceeding with this visit but I don't think that is going to happen. I questioned her about the L and she explained what was going to happen. Calmly with no mention of D or anything else, so I may be wrong that she was rolling this into one lawsuit/visit.

I was going to stay NC with her but we have been having some conversation, no R talk, but short conversations about things that are happening.

So I have vented now. If anyone wants to take a shot - swing away.


Me-70, D37,S36