Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

Here's what is REALLY strange (as if anything H does is "normal" anymore) he has not packed a single box. He is supposedly signing the lease tomorrow and moving next weekend-in 8 days and he HASN'T PACKED A SINGLE BOX. He says it's because he doesn't want D9 to notice but there are lots of things she wouldn't even have a clue about. He just seems SO lost. Our dr. said that when a person has been depressed for a long time they don't even remember what it's like to feel happy. I passed this tidbit along to H. When he and I moved into our house 14 years ago we had everything packed weeks in advance. Thoughts??