W is returning to town today. W states that she has told her father, but not sure about her mother. Her intention is to inform our kids tonight, so she can move into the other bedroom. she has stated that her name is on the house and she will not move unless i buy her out.
do i get an appraisal then subtract all of the work that i have done and show her that there is nothing to give?
do i hold all of my cards tight, she makes more money and is a partner in a successful business? in a D i would ask for maintenance(difference between her salary and mine), 1/2 of her interest in her company, 1/2 custody of the children, and i want to stay in my home. do i go see a L and find my rights then inform her what i will get?
how do i treat the discussion with the kids?
M=37 W=40 Married=10,T=12 D=10 D=8 WAW Bomb=1/12 EA confirmed=1/13 EA exposed=1/27 Current In house separation