Forgot to say, I think finally standing up to him and saying I am ready to move towards divorce and letting him mull it over for about 2 hours made him realize quickly that I am serious. Even with the plan I have let him know that I am not going to keep waiting forever, and he said that he understood so I think this is the first time he knows I am serious and will go through with it.
Now I need to switch gears and make sure I am loving and supportive of his changes so he will continue with them. I started this morning by thanking him for the talk, dinner, and the plan. I reminded him of the plan and let him know I was excited for the day he is ready to come home. That was after the text I got that said good morning. love you.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
