Time to pull out whatever support "big guns" you have access to. Plan to keep things as normal as possible for the kids, and cut way back on your expectations of yourself.
Thank you SO much for the great advice. My SIL said she will be available if my daughter needs her or my neices. She and my brother have been very supportive thru it all. (Also two of my closest friends said the same thing.) It's strange....it's like I can hear this really loud clock ticking in the back of my head....three more days...two more days...one more day!!!
M-44 H-44 D9 S1 M-17 T-20 Bomb-8/09 EA/PA/MLC H moved out 2/4/10
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