I've been db'ing for over a year, w/a year of really bad, clingy behavior prior... I've tried every approach in the book(s), have gotten tons and tons of advice, but in the end, stuck to DB'ing...
It did stop the possibility of divorce, but it's not left me "feeling better about myself, being more independent, etc..."
DB'ing has left me as a shell of a person I was. DB'ing has left me paralyzed in voice and action. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-confidence. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-love.
I have had some private conv via alt and email w/some good suggestions, and I will heed those.
I'm just left, alone in fear. And that sucks.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
