Forward, I disagree. One of the big problems with people on here is they DON'T work on themselves. They wait on the XH or XW and do nothing really different. You speak of change, I agree, things do change, but I was talking in terms of the former marriage. Anyway, I hope you can get yourself on track, I know its tough, but to keep looking back makes it harder. As far as "hearing from XW" LOL Well, that probably wouldn't be a good idea on her part to try to contact me, that's all I am going to say.