Hi again. Also i wanted to say that i have a sitch that is the reverse of yours. I was the one who met a man, then two weeks later separated from my H. It is a very long and complicated story as is everybodies stories, i'm sure. My H has been working away from home and returns at weekends. That has been going on 9yrs now. He became more work obsessed. I became more resentful. too simple a summary, i know. I'm not placing the blame anywhere but at my own feet. I did start a thread, months ago. It didn't really go anywhere as I was in such a bad place i didn't keep up with the posting. I got heaps of support simply reading other peoples threads. If i repost could some of you take a look at my situation. I could really use some of your valuable insight on a more personal level. Sorry once again. x
me 41 H 40 D 10 S 13 S 15 separated in same house 05/09 my A 05-07/09