Again I reread some of the other posts and must respond. Ok, must isn't quite the word, but...
cat04 said "personally I'd quit having sex with her..." And I thought I knew about all her adventures. (this one just struck me funny)
Bworl tells me I SERIOUSLY need to change my attitude. I am not even sure I know what my attitude is, but... could you please clarify what you mean. I really am interested! You and a few others seem to have this down, and I don't, so I like the straight talk here. I may not agree with all of it, but I like straight shooters! That's usually who I am, and part of why this last 3 years has got me so worn out. I don't mean cruel or unfeeling. Just telling it like it is-compassionately. I don't get it from W and I cannot or do not know how to say it to her.
