For the couple of questions I did not answer-I married her not being aware of most of her baggage. I was sure she'd make a great mother. Other than constantly telling our kids behind my back I was a sorry father, and the other items mentioned, she was. And like most young men, I was intensely attracted to her sexually.

And yes OP-my hormones are playing a role in this even at my advanced age, along with other items mentioned.

So in case I did not make it clear-I still have lots of work to do on me! Alot of the diagnosis of my wife has come from 5 different MC's who I have not believed up until the last 3 years. (That and doing an honest review of her behavior)