Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[flowmom]

I know in my heart that he HAS to move out for my sanity but it is very scary with a D9 and an 18 month old. I
am SO sad for my kids that my heart is broken.

My heart goes out to you JG. Telling my kids that H was moving out, and him actually moving out was very, very hard for me. Time to pull out whatever support "big guns" you have access to. Plan to keep things as normal as possible for the kids, and cut way back on your expectations of yourself.