I moved out of the house so XH could move back in to sell it, with the plan being that we'd go through everything together (or perhaps individually). I only took what I really needed or was clearly mine, left a lot of stuff for staging. Well, while the house was on the market he decided to take a lot of things to Goodwill without my consent AND he and OW bought the house from me. I never got the final go-through. Be glad you get to go through everything.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.