stop fearing him and if/when he finds out and gripes you out, you just tell him
"Whenever the courts rule that you are able to have unsupervised visits I will be glad to call you if I need you to watch her. And until then, I will not be calling, and you need to respect the courts decision."
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."