stop fearing him and if/when he finds out and gripes you out, you just tell him

"Whenever the courts rule that you are able to have unsupervised visits I will be glad to call you if I need you to watch her. And until then, I will not be calling, and you need to respect the courts decision."


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."