My story, what to do next.

[digger22]

W moving to her new place this weekend. She took the day off today to try and get some stuff organized from our house for moving day. W was talking about how she just needs stability in her life and the house I am in (6200 ft sq and full of continual projects and costs a lot of money) is not what she needs. I took offense to this as I am also one that wants the "simple life".

W must have seen that I was upset while she was complaining and asked me what was wrong. I told her this is not what I want either. It was my misunderstanding of her that made me intrigued to buy it. I saw it as a short term investment with huge potential to set us up in a very good financial position in a few years. Unfortunately, our economy crashed and my great idea looks like a pipe dream.

Been discussing what we want in our futures (us not being together) and it seems like we really have the same goals and ideas of what a marriage should look like.