H - I'm just calling...getting ready to go eat W - ok I'll talk to you later then
was there anything in between the I'm just calling, and getting ready...? if not, well, usually when we cut a convo short, you don't cut it after the first sentence.
remember, upbeat having fun! I might have responded..."Great to hear from you, I just had the best dinner myself!" and then maybe he would have asked about it, or not, and then I might have ended, "I better go, have a great evening!"
be excited when he hears you. you are wanting to act carefree but busy and having fun. you want him to want to be a part of your life.
OR
you can act the way HE is acting, and he won't want a part of that because he is not happy with who he is or where he is right now.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."