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Luv,
you sound really frustrated again with your sitch and how your H isn't meeting your expectations.

I hope you can find some peace and do some things for you that will help ease your angst.

Thinking of you...remember, you are not alone in this.
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I'm still around Luv, I'm just cutting down time I spend on the board.

ST made some valid points and I don't have much to add until you have decided what it is you want to do.

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Thank you Bridge and G - I know I sound frustrated because I am frown


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Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
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Quote:
H - I'm just calling...getting ready to go eat
W - ok I'll talk to you later then


was there anything in between the I'm just calling, and getting ready...? if not, well, usually when we cut a convo short, you don't cut it after the first sentence.

remember, upbeat having fun! I might have responded..."Great to hear from you, I just had the best dinner myself!" and then maybe he would have asked about it, or not, and then I might have ended, "I better go, have a great evening!"

be excited when he hears you. you are wanting to act carefree but busy and having fun. you want him to want to be a part of your life.

OR

you can act the way HE is acting, and he won't want a part of that because he is not happy with who he is or where he is right now.


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M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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my prayers are with you


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
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EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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Mine too.


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Mine three!


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thanks so much guys! I'm in agreement with your prayers!


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BTW - I always make sure to sound upbeat even though I feel like crap


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that is good luv


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
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DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
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