DanceQueen, it's good to hear you say this and to say it so emphatically. I often find myself backsliding to thinking of women, especially women over 50, as being likely turned off by sex, or having the attitude of "I can take it or leave it" at best.
The reality wake-up call for me has been learning that possibly as many as the majority of women lose their sex drives as they approach or go through menopause, if not after the birth and caring for multiple children. I wasn't really prepared for that, and I bought into the misleading advice that women peak sexually in middle-age, whatever age that is. Sure, true for some, but not in the "great majority" numbers I had believed. I was assuming that my wife's interest in sex would pick up in the long term as she reached her sexual-peak age. Well, that is certainly not the way it turned out in my marriage, not to mention the marriages of some friends -- where the sex went to zero just like in mine.
DanceQueen, may I ask how old you are? If you're older than 50, than you're a pleasant exception to what I've come to experience. All I can say is that my personal experience may be terrible unrepresentative. All the women who have come on to me at the office and elsewhere over the years have ALL been younger. In my experience, they tend to be more daring and flirty.
