Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Mindfull, I am taking this DB job seriously--by trying to FOCUS my efforts on specific strategies and then monitor results! :-) Glad you think I am being methodical because that is my intention! This could all be for naught but at least I will know I did everything I could think of.

An online friend of mine from another forum was kind of doing what I've been doing since his wife asked to separate in August so she could be with OM. Well, they had been getting along well. Well, yesterday she asks him for a divorce and is steadily moving forward. She said she thought they might as well do it now since they've been "getting along so well!" Of course we both think some event with the OM triggered her because it was so abrupt. My point is I am still hoping for the best but prepared for the worst!