How do I expose the affair

[june72]

I had an employer who paid net detective online for access to their database of address and phone numbers- seemed very good. Most libraries also have a paid database called Reference USA and Business Reference USA- you will have better luck with that. You can usually get info on the phone from the library- you do not have to go to one. You may also want to try some library databases that index and abstracts local newspapers. I know that I can look up and see by a persons name what real estate he/she bought, the address, the purchase price and the year bought. So if you have the name of OW - then search her name and if she bought a house with her hubby it will be listed as "OW and OWH purchased house at ### address..."If you are in NY there are databases at the library for this, I really believe other states would have this. Sometimes you local newspaper has a website that is searchable by name for real estate info.

Also, if you have no luck at a public library the reference staff at university libraries will still help you and usually have better researcher skills.

Best, you hubby definitely seems to be trying to bully you. Stay strong don't show weakness to him. He is looking for you to be weak now so he can manipulate you- very obvious.