I've long offered this advice when one spouse is willing and the other is unsure... Someone has to pick up the phone first. Why not let it be you? I was surprised when I learned that half the time, the W makes the first call, and the other half, it's the H. Really? 50/50? Each one has to make their own call, in their own way, on their own timeline. Make the call...update your spouse and offer the number. And here's the important part...ASK. Ask them to please make this call. That's it. Let the team do their job. They know what they are doing.
