I just told him no, not tonight. I just got this reply: "It is about both (meaning kids & bills) and I don't care what u want. Everything isn't about u. It is very important we get the bills figured out"
I think my only option now, is to not be home.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
PDT, Thank you, I hate when they act like that. And NO there is no pressing financial matter. Should I respond to the above with "Not tonight we can talk next week", or not respond at all? I'm just so mad that I would have to leave my house just to avoid him. I had plans at home tonight.
Last edited by mb28; 01/27/1009:30 PM.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
The OWH is unlisted in the phonebook, so i'm still trying to figure out a way to contact him.
H has texted me twice sense I last posted: H: U want to talk now (I didn't respond) H: (15 min later) U should call me now (I didn't respond)
I did find out (from his mom) that he came home early from work because he had an appt. She's thinking it was with a lawyer. I did talk to some lawyers today and all said there is no advtange to him filing first. However, if while we are seperated he deecides to stop paying any bills, then all adviced I file and get a temporary order for him to pay.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
Serves him right if he's uncomfortable. It takes WAHs a while to learn that they can't call the shots any more.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
