Oh, no, he wants the house. Just sent me a very formal proposal that I must agree to by March 31. Going to buy me out.
No way is he going to accept me buying him out. No way am I going to have him move her in here---hang her clothes in my closet, her toothbrush in my medicine cabinet.
I have a call into my cousin the L, and will spend time tomorrow talking to lawyers.
It's just the pain--which you all know about! of getting such cold, hard, ugly letters. How the f**k did this happen to our love?
A year ago this time we were watching Obama get inaugerated, and all was right with the world.
Advice, please, from the experts on HOLDING OUT; Working with L; being strong and getting past this; if I do lose the house, coping with the OW taking over my place and presence.
God help me here.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
