Met with Attorney filed a motion per atty's idea to get d in therapy she is out of control,I am starting to get in control.
I have never stood up for myself I am going to now.
matter of fact d just texted me and said she hates me and never going to live with me, because made her serve detention and told the asst principal if she doesn't serve it, suspend her. d went off like a rocket and still is.
wife called did the pretend to back me up, talked to her for 2hrs, i was calm,nice,collected.didn't talk about myself,did mention to her she didn't think everything thru.
she said need to focus on myself and kids, said exactly,letting you know wife only way gonna get this back.hinted i was at atty today, wife boasted she's only spent $1000, i have had to charge over $5k so far.regular put down stuff,tried to validate, wife said don't play mind games,said not, i made mistakes,acknowledging them.
i did let her know she made a couple mistakes and i am working on the forgiving part and how to keep her in the house and keep my word.Then she threatened me, i let her go, before she could say two wks from now wouldn't let her off the phone.
when she came by with d, wife got out of car, i said, the next time you want to talk we can do it in front of shrink,name the time and i'll be there, she said so now ur telling me not to call you, said you can call, i'm not going to answer.
text me from here on out.
walked away calmly,d thru fit,wife laughed at me.
THEY ARE NOT GOING TO LIKE THE MOTION I FILED TODAY.
But eventually they are going to like me, it hit me and the post last wk said, when am i going to stand up for myself.
well kids aren't going to respect me until i do, i don't feel good about myself because i've been giving it knocked out.
i'm going to stand up for myself, i didn't ring the divorce bell or steal or threaten, i didn't let d get out of control entirely, now i take responsibility because i wasn't vocal in the past, but D wants wkends with mom, because she doesn't have to be home at 11 with mom.
Game on.
Jack they were, so time for me to start showing her what she is missing.
