The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

My list is similar to Gnosis's list:

- A woman that wants to be with me because who I am not because she wants to change who I am.
- A woman that can accept that she can't control everything and when she doesn't get her way she doesn't lose it.
- A woman mature enough to control her emotions for the most part--there will always be exceptions, I get that.
- A woman who supports my dreams and will give me the freedom to pursue them.
- Who does not mock my efforts or ridicule them
- Who realizes what she's got and doesn't compare me to others
- Who confides in me and values my opinion
- Who doesn't measure success with material possessions

Some stipulations if she came home would be the following:
- We would maintain seperate finances for now
- I would would have to have access to her computer, email accounts and phone records
- Any decision that involved my daughter would have to be discussed before she acts

I don't know if I can trust her ever again--I know it would be difficult. On top of that, my daughter hasn't said one positive word about her mother. I fear that it will be years before my daughter will be able to forgive her and my wife doesn't seem to understand that. All she can talk about is how much my daughter seems to hate her.