How are you able to have two places to live when the financial situation is so dire? I may has missed something in your posts...
We can't afford it. H insisted on renting a 2 bedroom apartment and I'm sure it's because he was advised to do that for custody reasons. Realistically, unless I increase my earnings, there just isn't enough money to pay off debt and fund a second apartment. H may have a strategy to ask for 50% custody so he doesn't have to pay child support.
Originally Posted By: june72
How are the kids handling this?
They are mostly confused at this point. S started having nightmares for the first time in his life, and D has been having worse than usual sleep issues. They're both acting a lot more fragile. The separation was presented as a temporary thing (that wasn't said implicitly, but it was implied) so they don't understand that this could be permanent.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
