Meet with your L beforehand and discuss this with him. Get his advice on what is the best way to handle this... tell him what you want to achieve... and then let him handle it. REMEMBER ONE thing: The objective is NOT to end up in court but stop at the final step before court. ;)Godspeed and His blessing be with you....
I don't want to fight this in court. I'm sure it won't come down to that. I have a great lawyer - never should have gone this farking Mediation route - I will leave it entirely up to him. He knows what I want, where I've been getting screwed, and exactly what to do..
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
