Notice that she said, "what have YOU decided" I think she might be giving up some control but is also trying to get it back by pushing you on the decision. Do not back down now - tell her like it is.
I did notice and haven't had the chance to sit down and talk with her. She did call today after work and said something about calling to set up a counseling appt again tomorrow and how she's been unable to get a hold of anyone. Funny, my counselor called me back as soon as I called for an appointment and when I called to get an appointment for my daughter, her counselor called back quickly as well.
So the wife got a dog from the pound today. When I asked her why she replied because she was lonely. Ok, I thought, I suppose that's better than the alternative route she's been choosing this past year. She brought the dog over for my daughter and I to see and made a comment to me that I "need" to let her come back home so we can do xyz.
Feels like one of those days where I just don't feel like it will work. Maybe I'm just tired but I don't see her doing anything other than talking.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
