They are as much yours as they are hers. She chose to walk away from R, you didn't and is not your guilt to shoulder. You probably can't force her to leave but she can't make you either. That means she has to live with you when she was hoping you would make it easier for her by you leaving. She will try to lay blame for everything that has ever happened to her and you MUST STAND FIRM for your decision. I just finished role playing for an hour with a good friend where he try to hit me with everything I expect from W. I expect the sh!tstorm of all time when I have this same talk with W tonight. Do not have this talk with W until you are convinced you won't buckle under pressure.
Read every post by Robx from from today back to Jan 1. He inspires me. Thanks Robx if you happen to read this thread.
