Hi, Opt. Well, things seem a bit up and down for you right now, but that is Life, isn't it? Maybe H is taking you asking to go to the CPA and asking him to put on ring as nagging...some guys seem to want to do things in their own time on their own so they don't feel like they are following orders or doing what their wives tell them to do. Make sense? My H is like that. I have grown to the point that I ask him to do something once and if he doesn't do it right away then I don't mention it, until he somehow either brings it up...or often magically does it! If he hasn't done something and then finally mentions it and often asks why I didn't remind him ( to get out of not having done it)...I say something to the effect of I asked you once and figured you'd get around to it when you had time. That puts the ball back in his court and keeps me from looking and or sounding like a nag.
