T, it is appalling that he uses your D to transmit such things, as you know she would not make that up. I am sorry.

I hate to say it, but hearing such a comment would still hurt me, which makes me realize I'm still not as far along as i would like to be.

Keep up the NC, Trusting. I think it is the only way to get out of the parent role.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D