Just make sure you have good legal representation, Tom. Yes, you have a big job ahead of you, but you seem to have gotten hold of the principles of DBing....and actually "doing" them. There are many LBH's who just don't seem to get it. All LBH's are in pain, but when they don't hear what is being said or refuses to do what is advised....then I don't see much hope in their future. OTOH, I think you will make the most in spite of your stitch. Pulling back from contacting WW is a huge effort!
Sure hope other things, like selling the house, will go more better. I have read more than one thread where the WAS would wait until the day before the D was to go through and then ask for another chance. Stay strong and focus on your life getting better with or without her....and I do believe you'll be a winner!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
