Get in touch with the OWH asap... compare notes... the sooner you two get together the better.

If H is going to be at home and you want to go home, take the OWH with you... your H wont' go anywhere near your house while the OWH's there. Invite him over for a coffee. THEN invite your H over and surprise him.

Last edited by Allen A; 01/27/10 10:27 PM.