snodderly have to say I agree I too fell over when I read his message, I thought it was going to be something serious, but then again on thinking about it, is this ex's way of finding out if daughter does in fact report back to trusting, they are sneaky, I have had it in the past when ex as wanted to know if and how I find things out, and sometimes he has slipped up and expected me to know things I dont know, they are just weird