[quote=OldPilot Usually there is another person to keep the one flying on the straight and narrow. [/quote]
Or else they are both off track.
Hey maybe that's my problem? The only buddy I got in the cockpit is 'George' (the immortal one). That's my auto pilot. No flight attendant ..no nothing else.
Sorry, guys, w/these two boys' schedules, I'd have to find two friends to handle them!!!
That's what I had in mind. When my parents went on vacation without us we'd get farmed out separately, me to one of my friends and my little brothers (18 mos apart) to another, or when the boys got older and I was out of the house they each went to a different friend's house. Usually it was with someone who had the same activities so the kids wouldn't miss anything and the hosting parents didn't have to make any extra trips.
Thanks for the comment on my quote. I wish more people (newbies in particular) would notice it and really think about it.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
It's really lonely later at night to have your H laying in bed w/one of the boys watching tv, and laughing quietly, etc... while I'm in here all alone.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I've been db'ing for over a year, w/a year of really bad, clingy behavior prior... I've tried every approach in the book(s), have gotten tons and tons of advice, but in the end, stuck to DB'ing...
It did stop the possibility of divorce, but it's not left me "feeling better about myself, being more independent, etc..."
DB'ing has left me as a shell of a person I was. DB'ing has left me paralyzed in voice and action. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-confidence. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-love.
I have had some private conv via alt and email w/some good suggestions, and I will heed those.
I'm just left, alone in fear. And that sucks.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Dont worry. Crisis time is time to move forward. It's probably your time to face your dilemma, face your self, what you want, need, what your goals are... It's not a bad thing. You are not alone. And yes, it does suck. Use the "suck" as a tool. K Please promise me you will do as I asked you to.
