Hi maple,

I'm on the opposite side of the universe with the A bizz. My (x)W made it so blatently obvious out in the open.

Soooo, we are faced with problems from my family not being very accepting of her, in fact Christmas being her first back in the family loop was a disaster for lack of better wording.

Then there's the freinds and family on both sides that question if us being back together is really a 'good thing' or if it's destined for failure and the kids and everybody is just going to get hurt again.

So, at this point, I'm a little stuck on what to advise as to how much should really leak out to everyone.

I also share your simpathy on different parenting styles. It is very frustrating to say the least.

All you can do is take it one day at a time as already suggested.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11