My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[Gardener]

nsw,

So can anyone tell me whent he rollercoaster of emotions is gonna stop? One minute I'm feeling fine and the next I'm all over the map emotionally.

I am 14 months post-Bomb and 8 months post-D Bomb and still on the roller coaster. It's slower and the dips are less low and the peaks aren't as high and I can anticipate both, for the most part.

Gutwrenching is right: Detachment is key.

But I've found that you can't "do" detachment. You can't just "detach". But do everything else in DB for you and - in time - detachment... happens.

There's a great article on detachment on some relationship or men's website. Spot-on. I can't find it and the last person I remember still having it is givingitmyall. You might want to stop by and check with him.