Undefeated, you two are awfully young, and your kids are babies (3 of them!!!). I think I would just worry about making sure those kids have some kind of normalcy and stability right now. Both of you having affairs, within five years of marriage and three kids!? Wow. Focus on the little ones.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
