I just told him no, not tonight. I just got this reply:
"It is about both (meaning kids & bills) and I don't care what u want. Everything isn't about u. It is very important we get the bills figured out"

I think my only option now, is to not be home.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10