I know why he is pushing so hard to come earlier than scheduled. He has his other kids (or kid) tonight. Too busy running around with her and most likely won't make it if he has to choose.
That is probably tough on him.
Kevin
And I would have some sympathy if he would make his other visits and not lie about it. His choices. His other kids are old enough to be home alone for an hour or so as well.
Iwitw and Antlers: Putting those boundaries up is a work in progress. I can do it and know I cannot care what he thinks. I am not punishing him...if I was I would cancel visits. I am just going by what WE agreed to and not letting him come and go on his whims. You are right he is still trying to walk all over me and beat me down.
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Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
