Notice that she said, "what have YOU decided" I think she might be giving up some control but is also trying to get it back by pushing you on the decision. Do not back down now - tell her like it is.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final