But this is where I get nervous about him now stopping by to check to see if we are home. Honest fear here...
I feel for you SO2, but living in fear is no way to live. Don't give someone that power over you. I don't know the specifics of your case, is he physically violent, or been so?
If so, then I can understand, but would hope that you could have authorities involved to protect you.
If not, then who cares what he does or thinks, or what his schedule is, or what his plans are, etc, or if he rants and raves, and whines, etc. To bad for him, that is not about you, and you can ignore it.
I'd seriously think about changing your cell phone, and not giving the number to him, if he can't stop the txt'ing to you, and you can't enforce that boundary.
You have to put in place some boundaries, they are not about punishing him, but about what you will accept and won't accept in how people treat you.
He is walking all over you, and your letting him, so he will continue to do so.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
